So I'm back writing this article.. This is special for girl and I'm gonna update boys edition soon. Okay.. It is more to advice and for boys, you might read this or recommend to read this to your girls too. *wink
Okay I might touched few of sensitive issues. I hope you guys think what I'm gonna say.
Few days, I scrolling up my twitter timeline and I saw lot of girls tweet about "men are trash" (especially Malaysian) just because of a singer cheated on her girlfriend for sixth times!!
Okay, chill, I know that girl will not really chill bout it.. What I try to say is, it is that girl fault! Why? cause if he cheated for once, it's a little bit logic if the girls gave him second chance! But how it could happen till six times? Did the girl is idiot? If your boyfriend cheated you for twice, it's mean that he is totally not the best for you! So, don't be so nonsense or clingy. It's your life. You have to make choice! If you choose to give him the third chance, it's mean that you gonna face the same problems. So you choose to be in the loop and then you update a tweet and it's mean that you show to the world "how stupid you are!"
Next, "men are trash" ? Like seriously? WTF your dad gender is? If you say that all of the man are in the same boat, then it's same to your dad! and what kind of daughter you are? If you say that men are trash that's mean that you have a fuckboy blood in yourself! So, mind your words!
Then, I would like to admonish to all of the girls, especially Malaysian! Let your boyfriend have his own time, I mean by hanging out with friends, play sports with friends, no need to control his life! Before he met you, he is happy having his life with his friends, hanging out, playing games, sports with his friends. So why wouldn't you understand him? If you love him, don't try to destroy his happiness.. He is a human like you. If you as a girl have friend time, as same as him! If you have a mind therapy such as shopping, as same as him! Let him have his world too! What should you worried about? If he love you, he wouldn't cheat on you! Wouldn't! If he cheat, he is not the best! Just remind that. Set on your mind. Trust me, when you make something difficult, you never get the happiness okay? If you make your life easy, you find your happiness! Want any example? So, here it is..
Get it? Easy! Make the life simple!
You might thought that how bout your feelings?
Easy! In relationship, it's have their own rules!
I think that's enough. I hope you would like to share and recommend others to read this post. Well, to me it's meaningful.. So yeah! Spread the loves, absorb the negativity and love yourself!
Okay I might touched few of sensitive issues. I hope you guys think what I'm gonna say.
Few days, I scrolling up my twitter timeline and I saw lot of girls tweet about "men are trash" (especially Malaysian) just because of a singer cheated on her girlfriend for sixth times!!
Okay, chill, I know that girl will not really chill bout it.. What I try to say is, it is that girl fault! Why? cause if he cheated for once, it's a little bit logic if the girls gave him second chance! But how it could happen till six times? Did the girl is idiot? If your boyfriend cheated you for twice, it's mean that he is totally not the best for you! So, don't be so nonsense or clingy. It's your life. You have to make choice! If you choose to give him the third chance, it's mean that you gonna face the same problems. So you choose to be in the loop and then you update a tweet and it's mean that you show to the world "how stupid you are!"
Next, "men are trash" ? Like seriously? WTF your dad gender is? If you say that all of the man are in the same boat, then it's same to your dad! and what kind of daughter you are? If you say that men are trash that's mean that you have a fuckboy blood in yourself! So, mind your words!
Then, I would like to admonish to all of the girls, especially Malaysian! Let your boyfriend have his own time, I mean by hanging out with friends, play sports with friends, no need to control his life! Before he met you, he is happy having his life with his friends, hanging out, playing games, sports with his friends. So why wouldn't you understand him? If you love him, don't try to destroy his happiness.. He is a human like you. If you as a girl have friend time, as same as him! If you have a mind therapy such as shopping, as same as him! Let him have his world too! What should you worried about? If he love you, he wouldn't cheat on you! Wouldn't! If he cheat, he is not the best! Just remind that. Set on your mind. Trust me, when you make something difficult, you never get the happiness okay? If you make your life easy, you find your happiness! Want any example? So, here it is..
Get it? Easy! Make the life simple!
You might thought that how bout your feelings?
Easy! In relationship, it's have their own rules!
- Do not SELFISH! Don't think everything is about you! bout your feelings think bout him too! If you just count on your feelings, how bout him? Who want to take care of his feelings? Another girl of course! *cynical smile
- Learn to COMPROMISE ! Like I told you before, if you only care bout your feelings, how bout him? Let him have his own time. They are not born just to make us satisfied. Put ourselves in his shoes.
- Understand your needs and wants. Understanding your own emotional and physical needs before you enter a relationship is important because you will need to be able to communicate these needs to your significant other if you want to have a successful relationship.
- Be realistic. Entering a relationship expecting there to be no difficult times or challenges is unrealistic. The early passion and the sense of infatuation you feel might fade, but with time and effort, you can build a deeper and more meaningful relationship.
- Don’t try to change your significant other. While you might be able to persuade your significant other to pick up dirty laundry or walk the dog, thinking that you will be able to seriously change his personality, views, or behavior can set up your relationship for failure.
- Don’t feel like you have to do everything together. Couples sometimes feel like they need to pursue every activity together, but this can make you and your significant other feel claustrophobic.
- Demonstrate how much your significant other means to you. Many couples pay special attention to birthdays and anniversaries, but expressing and demonstrating your appreciation for the things your significant other does every day will help you establish a strong and happy relationship.
- Realize that you and your partner might express love differently. People demonstrate affection and love differently, and realizing this can help you establish a happier and healthier relationship
- The last one.. Girls will always allowed their best friend take part in their relationship. It's fine to share problems, but sometimes it's over the limit! They are not in your shoes. They don't really know what had happen in your relationship. So? Why you need them to decide a solution of your problems? You shouldn't allowed people interfere you relationship!
I think that's enough. I hope you would like to share and recommend others to read this post. Well, to me it's meaningful.. So yeah! Spread the loves, absorb the negativity and love yourself!
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