FAMILY

So,Hi! I'm back!!I know that I've been disappear for long time.. But, yeah! I'm back with th tittle of FAMILY.. I'm not sure if I have talk bout this or not.. Well, my point is so priceless. So stay tune..

Okay few days ago, my granny sister's husband passed away and today my special friend granny passed away. So, for muslims I hope that you can read Surah Al-Fatihah for them and not forget to my granny's brother too..

Okay, I'm a little bit touched with the issue today. Although people might think that I'm heartless person, not cry for a small things. But, I'm weak when it's bout family.. I don't really know why, but I lose to family.

As might others know, or maybe my new readers don't even know but my family background, there are lot of conflicts in my family. For those who had knows, you might know why. For those doesn't know, just wait for others article, vlog or else. (Not in a short period)

Well, I'm here not to compared or else.. But I really need young generation to think like what I've think. If you disagreed with what I'm gonna write below, just let me know my give a comment on the comment section. You might sending me email too.

Okay, back to the topic!

Okay few days ago, my granny sister's husband passed away.

My granny's sister have lot of children and most of her children really successful and rich. But, when their late  father was ill, none of their child really want to visit their father. They just left their mom, which is her age is more than 68 years old to take care of their father alone. One of their siblings, just go home at night to companion their mom and bathe their father on the next morning and then go home. Yes,they have to leave cause they have their own life, their own family too, they have to go to work. But, why? They can't go home during the weekends or holiday just to help their mom take care of their father.

Can you imagine? How much the 68 years old lady strength? She have to cook for her lunch and dinner and she have to take care of his husband at the same time. I just can't imagine how their children can let their mom take care of their father alone! Yes! In Islam, woman belongs to their husband which is if wife want to back to their hometown and visit their parents, they have to ask for permision from her husband and if her husband not allowed her to go back to her hometown, she can't go back to her hometown no matter what.

But, I'm pretty sure that human are born with humanity. It's too cruel if her husband not allowed her to visit her father. But, I'm sure there will have a person like that too.. So, girls choose your husband wisely.

So my point is, to all of those women,men,girls, boys, out there and especially for anyone who read this! Please! Take care of your parents. They have spend lot of money to take care of you, to grown you up. It is priceless! No matter what, you will never repay them! NEVER! Just please! Take a good care of them. Some people might think it is so hard to take care of them. Well, folks will always seeking for attention which is they will always complaining bout this and that. But, remember! Once they passed away, you would never got any chances for spending your time with them. Yes! You have your own family! But, they can be replace! NOT YOUR PARENTS!

Your husband, your wife could be replace! For an example, you divorce with you husband/wife. You could find for their replacement! But not your parents! There will never have a same  person who is really care of you as same as your parents. Just appriciate them. Get it? No matter what they have done,what they are. Even your mom is stripper, prositude or what (example) she still your mom. Even she did wrong, she still your mom.. Even your dad is loan shark, pimps, drug dealer or else (example), he still your dad. Who feeds you, protect to, take care of you, give you education, work hard to full fill your demands..

So, love your parent while they still by your side. Cause people who alive will never living forever.. So appriciate them while they are still there. Spread love not hate

Love,
-NABYLLA-