Hi! I'm back.. Pheww~~ this topic is hard as hell! Why? Cause I really nees to think wisely.. cause if I'm give wrong opinion, it may effect others life.. So... I need to think and think and think! Not twice, but more!..
Well, I'm sure that everyone who had relationship have been faced this holly hard time.. Yeah.. Which part is doesn't hard? You have to think the perfect solution to make sure that you will have the win - win situation and long terms relationship.. Well, relationship is the hardest part of blogging actually.. if you need advise or question bout relationship, you might email to me.. and I promise to you that I will share to you my opinion or advises..
Okay, now we are on the side who had been cheated!
Okay, now we are on the side who had been cheated!
Okay, first I would like to suggest to you How To Faced This Problem! Okay... If you have been cheated with your boyfriend or girlfriend, first of all have a nice discussion.. I mean, there is no need any war! Yes! I admit that you must be so mad.. but if you keep being selfish how could you solve the problems? So, solve the problem nicely.. No need to turn off your phone and be so selfish! I know that you felt hurt, back stab, but be professional. Be the one who really nice and make him/her think "oh! I have cheated on him/her but he/she is so nice to me.. Why should I cheated on? " make them felt regret! No need to be so selfish like you are the only one who felt hurt! Maybe you had hurt him/her feeling before.
Next, ask them why? If their answers are can't be accept, re-think it is okay if you still be with him/her. Would it happen again? You have to asked them why!! I mean like seriously!! Maybe they cheated on you cause you are too busy till you ignore him/her.. or maybe you put your friend priority or else. It is important to ask them the reason. Why? Cause I'm would like to say that,if you end with break up, least you can tell to people around you the truth! No need to tell lies.. if you telling lies, and people know bout it, it is like you are throwing shit on your face! People will blame on you 100%.. trust me! Cause it is normal when people know that you are telling lies, they will never trust you again. So, if anything story bout your break up with him or her, people wouldn't trust you and will always put blame on you! So, never telling lies! Okay?
Next! If you think that his/her reasons can be accepted, and you are wrong, ask for forgiveness and discuss would you are getting back together or end the relationship.. If he/she choose to end the relationship, no need to be sad or else! Believe me that you will meet better person soon okay?? No need to feel down or like "the world gonna end!" least you know that she/he can't accept for your flaws. Just chill! There's nothing to be afraid of! You'll meet someone who will never care bout your flaws and will love you never what! so, no need to scared of! Okay?
Okay, it is not fair when I'm just giving advice to those who had been cheated isn't? So, here is my advice to the cheater!
Huh! Why should you cheating on? Which part of your partner's flaws that been your reasons to be a cheater? If you don't into her/him again, just be honest! No need to be a cheater! Don't you even remember how was your first met? first knowing each other? How much hard that you're trying to get her/him? Don't you? Do you really think that you are perfect enough? He/She could accept all of your flaws, mistake and more. But why you cheated on? Why you've been so cruel? If you are not into him/her, just told!. Don't play with his/her heart. A gentle person, they won't play with anyone heart. I know that you gonna say "it will hurt him/her" but least she/he listen from your mouth and not others!. Just stop being fake! I'm not trying to blame on, but I just hope being so nice cause it wasn't fair. Felt been cheated is totally sucks! I hope that you might change yourself cause A thousand person that come to you, will never same as before!
Okay, it is not fair when I'm just giving advice to those who had been cheated isn't? So, here is my advice to the cheater!
Huh! Why should you cheating on? Which part of your partner's flaws that been your reasons to be a cheater? If you don't into her/him again, just be honest! No need to be a cheater! Don't you even remember how was your first met? first knowing each other? How much hard that you're trying to get her/him? Don't you? Do you really think that you are perfect enough? He/She could accept all of your flaws, mistake and more. But why you cheated on? Why you've been so cruel? If you are not into him/her, just told!. Don't play with his/her heart. A gentle person, they won't play with anyone heart. I know that you gonna say "it will hurt him/her" but least she/he listen from your mouth and not others!. Just stop being fake! I'm not trying to blame on, but I just hope being so nice cause it wasn't fair. Felt been cheated is totally sucks! I hope that you might change yourself cause A thousand person that come to you, will never same as before!
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