Bonjour! I'm back! With the tittle "Backstabber Friend" Okay.. Since I have been disappear for a long time, I've been through a lot of situation such as backstabbing by a trust people. It's lie if I told it's okay.. So... I'm would like to share some advices..
Okay.. What you have to do if your realize that your friends backstab you? To me, it's as easy as abc. How could I handle this? While my emotion is quite messy.. It's easy. Here I give you two opinion.
But at first, you have to decide would you like to end this nicely or you want to stab on her face back? You had to choose. If you choose to end nicely, you might forgive he/she and re-build your friendship or just stay away from her. But, if you wanna make she/he realize or get some lesson, you might follow my suggestion.
First, Collect All Of The Proof That She/He Stabbing you. For an example, she is your bestfriend but she cheated on you by get a date with your boyfriend without you know. So, if you know about this, you have keep calm, keep smiling and pretend like you don't know anything while find a lot of proof that your boyfriend and your bestfriend are cheating. Such as get their dating photos, try to sneak their phone and screenshot the converstion and etc.
Second, Get Ready A Lot of Killing Question.
Such as? What are they doing on the date and time? How could they out without you know about it? Ask the proof that the evidence is a impose and more traping questions.
Third, Make An Appointment To Meet Both Of Them At The Same Time and Place. (Without they know the reasons). Meet at the public. Such as Restaurants, School Park, In front of collegue or etc. After you can make sure that they can come on the place that you have set on the same time, be ready with every situation that might be happen.
Fourth, Meet Them With Sweet Smile. Dont let them know that what you had plan on. Cause they might run away before you stab on her/his face. So don't do something weird or out of the box that can make them feel uneasy or curious.
Fifth, Play Riddle With Them. For the example , you told them that you have dream about they had afair behind you. And Let Them Answer It, and listen to their answer. Keep making play riddle till they had no answers for it.
Sixth, Show The Proof And Ask Them To Explain About It. I'm sure that they will say that it was a misunderstanding. But, let them explain about it and if you get the point, hit them. I mean, if they explain that it was misunderstanding, you might reply "how could you dont know that they were going out, why should they hide it from you if there were no big secret and more"...
Well, its is how we should teach a backstabber.. it was just a suggestion oky?? But.. if you guys dont wanna involve with any fight, you guys could just stay away from her/his
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