Hmm.. I've a lot of questions about this since I was 9 years old.. as the tittle, why people Insult each other,what made me choose this title is at my school on the morning before recess, my counselor ask me to be a facilitators of 2 Jujur students.. The majority of the class is the boy china and indian only one girl and four slaves malay .. so, I ask them to give attention but the chinese boy and girl ignored me. I do not scold them because, if we want someone respect us, we have to respect them.. so, I just ask them to chat slowly and they listen to me.
At first, I ask a chinese girl to sit close me and beside a malay girl. That chinese girl is so rude.. she make her face and told me that the malay girl was smelly.. so, I said that don't be too rude, she is a human and have feelings.. so, don't said that.. It's rude... Okay, we have go to far from the tittle.. Back to the tittle, I have make my investigating on why people always insult others. so, let's start with the first one.
1) They think that they are superb perfect
I won't blame them.. But, the way their parents amplify them, make them think that they are always perfect. Logically, they have a mental problems. Their parents never blame them on every mistakes that they do.. so, that make them think that they are perfect.
2) They do not realize that everything that they have belongs to Allah
Majority of the people unconsciously that everything that they have and others have belongs to Allah.. Seriously, most of the people insult others because actually, they JEALOUS with our life.. They jealous because they can't be like us.. so, we should let everybody like them win.. Don't ever change our life because of them.. Don't ever lose your control if we don't want they power over our life. We can be a better person.. But, don't ever be someone who lost their self confident..
3) They want the attention
Actually, people who insult us, want to take us down.. They want attention from us. Maybe because their parents don't give a Insufficient attention to them.. So, if you don't want people take you down, make sure you not show to them that you are weak.. Because they will take chance to make you down.
At first, I ask a chinese girl to sit close me and beside a malay girl. That chinese girl is so rude.. she make her face and told me that the malay girl was smelly.. so, I said that don't be too rude, she is a human and have feelings.. so, don't said that.. It's rude... Okay, we have go to far from the tittle.. Back to the tittle, I have make my investigating on why people always insult others. so, let's start with the first one.
1) They think that they are superb perfect
I won't blame them.. But, the way their parents amplify them, make them think that they are always perfect. Logically, they have a mental problems. Their parents never blame them on every mistakes that they do.. so, that make them think that they are perfect.
2) They do not realize that everything that they have belongs to Allah
Majority of the people unconsciously that everything that they have and others have belongs to Allah.. Seriously, most of the people insult others because actually, they JEALOUS with our life.. They jealous because they can't be like us.. so, we should let everybody like them win.. Don't ever change our life because of them.. Don't ever lose your control if we don't want they power over our life. We can be a better person.. But, don't ever be someone who lost their self confident..
3) They want the attention
Actually, people who insult us, want to take us down.. They want attention from us. Maybe because their parents don't give a Insufficient attention to them.. So, if you don't want people take you down, make sure you not show to them that you are weak.. Because they will take chance to make you down.
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