Respect

Hurm... Today in this morning, I want to talk about "RESPECT". Why should we respect others?  How respect can  affect our life?? How can we be respected? Hurm.. I got a lot of questions.. But, thanks to my cousin, she help me answer all this question in half an hour ago.. She told me that we can't buy respect but, we can get respect easily if we respect others first. Then I asked.. "We are human. We are not perfect, how we can respect others if they insult us? Be insulted is hurt". Then she answer me with calm. "Yes, It's not easy to forgive others on what they have make to us include hurt our feelings. As what you always say, we are not a perfect Barbie doll that always can be perfect 24 Hours. But, If we want to be respected, we should throw away our ego. Be patient is the only a good solution".. Then I ask " They are not in our shoes, but they love to judging? They never respect others feeling.. Why should us keep their feeling?". Then she smile while answer, "If you don't want to keep their feelings, why they have to keep your feel? It's easy, you should give in! Give up doesn't mean you are a loser, But give up means that you give others feel that they are win but actually, they are not!" So, I am so satisfied with her answer because, she makes me think, If I be a stubborn, why not others too? Btw, thanks Vivian... That's all from me, I hope this story can give you a lesson...

 (If we want to be respected, we should respect others first. Give up doesn't mean we are lose, but give up mean we give others feel their win but in fact, they are the ultimate losers)